After Air India crash: broken heart and empty house; A husband who has not cried, an elderly person who will not go home. Bharat News

Ahmedabad: London-Bound AI 171, eleven days after the crash of AIDabad, the families of the victims struggled with heavy grief, displaying unexpected reactions to several trauma that have left the concerned consultants.One of the most heartbreaking cases is a 27 -year -old man who has lost his wife and is unable to cry even once. The couple married in 2024, and he proceeded to establish his new house in London.“I should have been with him,” a crime-hit man is telling himself again and again, it is also painful to come up with loss. During his last conversation, his wife asked him not to delay again and waited at the Gatwick Airport in London. “Therefore, when he received the news of the accident, he took the first available flight and reached Ahmedabad, he reprimanded himself for delay. He visited the (hospital) campus for three days to complete the procedures and took his remains home for the funeral. He did not cry, but could not cry, even once, “said a consultant at the Civil Hospital, Ahmedabad.Hospital officials have appointed 10 counselors – mainly experienced psychiatrists – to help families deal with the deaths of loved ones.One of the counselor, Urvika Parekh said breaking the news to a seven -year -old girl. Parekh said, “She came to give DNA samples to identify the remains. The family could not break the news. Some families have lost many family members. It is difficult to fill the zero,” Parekh said.Counselors have faced several examples of families unable to return to normal life. A senior citizen who has lost four family members has not gone back home. He said, “The void of the house is very heavy for him, so he has been living with a close relative for some time. The same is true for many families because they have only caught the funeral of their beloved people and now it is difficult to imagine life without them,” she said.Parekh explained the seven stages of grief – shock and refusal, pain and crime, anger and bargaining, depression, turning upwards, reconstruction and acceptance. Another psychiatrist and counselor, Disha Vaswara, said, “It is harder to face a child’s loss compared to parents. In many examples, it may take days or weeks to process trauma.” Counselor will be in touch with families. He said, “Some relatives had worked initially, but could not catch themselves back when handed over to the coffins. The first few days were spent in arranging, but when the reality is set, it is necessary to hold by hand,” he said.Psychiatrists attracted similarities with early Kovid deaths, where relatives were not allowed to look at the deceased last time, which led to incompatibility for those demanding closure.